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So? Did you follow my advice to the traveler and made a thorough inspection of yourself? Could you feel your body a little bit different or was it back to the same-old? Being able to sense yourself is an important step to melt the heart of your desired lady. Just believe it. However, today we will make a few further steps in the topic of “better touching”. But first a word of caution. My words are not set in stone. I just grab from a deep treasure chest of experience and I also give you some little glimpses into my fantasies. Things I like might not impress all women, some might be even bored by them. So you as a man need to raise your antennas, receive her signals and learn to decipher them.
Annas magic word? Slowness. Try it with slowness. Slowwww. Keep it slooooowwwww. Do thing at a snails pace. Turn on the “slow motion”, turn down your speed, in everything you, once you approach her.
Look – have a deeper, longer look at her than usual…
Smile – I a little bit longer then you normally do…
Hold – her hand a little longer than she is used to…
Embrace – her a little longer when you say goodbye, when you say hello and in between
Count – silently to yourself. 2… 3… 4… 5… 6…
Feel yourself and also her with a slow motion mind. Breath deeply and take her with you in your breaths. Exhale and spread a soft carpet that she can sink into in your arms.
Of course this can lead to confusion and uncertainty, but your slowness is a gift for you, her and you both. And sometimes you need time to enjoy the extra attention you are giving and receiving.
A mindful reader will have realized that so far we are only at the daily routine of a couple between the “Goodbye my love”-kiss in he morning and the “I’ll go brush my teeth for the night”. But the daily routine is a great door opener for the more sensual time for two. Be more observant, more curious, more focused. Look at her with an uninhibited view and search for those details that your routine might have covered up. Anywhere your focus lingers, energy will accumulate and the temperature rises.
For those who moan:
Well, Anna, I would, but there is nobody female in my life right now.
Well, everything has its moment and in the meantime you just try this newfound slowness with yourself, because whatever you are searching for you most often will find in yourself.
We will continue this when summer starts again. See you then!
So the new year already has us in its grip. Or are you gripping your year? Everybody runs at their own speed, but one thing is for sure, spring already has taken its wardrobe from the attic. The days are getting longer and I feel the lively spring spirits getting closer. One, two, three and they jumped into us, even you, to look in every nook and cranny, throw out the old, dust off the shelves and make room for all new things.
Oh, today you are a bit abstract, aren’t you?
Yes, I’d like to chart a course to my second fantasy-journey in the direction of the “Queen of Hearts”.
Oh, well. So where are we heading to this time?
Before we start we rest for a while at the starting block and check out the traveler from head to toe, as without a traveler there is no journey. Let’s look at the basics. If you want to get to a sensual destination, you need to feel yourself, who you are and what you are made of.
Look into a mirror – both real and in your mind. Have you got only a small one in the bathroom, in the car, or a large one, showing you from head to toe? These are the best ones. Look into it, look at yourself, at your face. Have you shaved yet? Or still wearing some designer stubble? Well groomed or rather casual? Run your fingers across your chin or better, take the sensitive insides of your upper arm. Does it scratch? Scratching is not good for matching. Your hair? Short, or to the shoulders or a lot less up to zero? Who takes care of you hair? A woman, a hairdresser “just the usual…” or you yourself, based on your style and preferences? What type of man are you? Individual? Vanilla or even grey and unimpressing? What about your gaze? Is it nervous or clear and steady? Can it be striking and cause weak knees? Can you talk with your eyes?
Smile, you are a charming guy!
Yes, that’s you and now look down on yourself. Are you the type that women like to touch curiously? What do you like about yourself?
Your upper arms? Are they powerful and tough? Can they carry a woman? Or are they a bit weak lately because there just was no opportunity? Do something about it. There is always time for some pushups! Look at your hands. Are they rough or soft, pampered or not worth a mention? Your hands are your seduction power number 2. And now farther down the body. Is there a belly or is there something that will be called a belly soon? Stay straight, shoulders back, tuck the tummy in. Yes, now that’s a better shape. Are you one of those people with a mobile in their hand, for games and reading news? Keep it in the pocket and see the world around you. That is way more interesting and stays in your head longer than all the online swiping and scrolling. And if you do it, you will pull others with you. Living offline is contagious. 😉 Where were we? Ah, belly. Turn around. Touch your rear with both hands. How does it feel? Firm, saggy or cramped? Relax. It’s better for the buttocks. What kind of bottom would you like? Is your behind an erogenous zone that invites the lady of your dreams to knead it? Yes? Rrrrrr… but if you think No, then do something about it. The derriere is such a place of joy, both for men and women. Just believe me. 😉 Keep looking… down the legs. Wearing saggy trousers? Why not well cut trousers that make the most of your legs? There are a lot of little details that make you interesting as a man in a woman’s eye. With shoes some men actually have passed by women in the style and color department. I’m impressed.
So – are you a pretty guy who enjoys making a mark on the female spectator? Yes? Congratulations, keep doing! No? Then ask yourself what is really important in life. We all are not getting younger and the earlier you are conscious of your body, the longer you can enjoy that. For sure? Well, be more offline, be more open for the little and the big encounters. Then you will know.
Annas advice: Feel more, think less…
Wishing you a beautiful, sensual spring!
Days are getting shorter again right now. You get up in the morning and it’s gloomy and you finish work in the darkness as well. Sunshine is taking firmly short shifts from now on, and everyone who wants to indulge in it has to hurry up. And here we are again: Rushing & Stress Inc. And it’s queer, that all these up to date bric-a-bracs rejoicing time savings are completely causing the opposite. We are panting behind time which is standing behind us laughing up its sleeve 😊.
A man is coming home his head filled with a cuddling fantasy he wants to express to the lady of his heart (as long as she’ staying home at all). But first of all daily grind will drag him towards the hard bottom of reality. “G´day everyday”, “Hi, kids”, “Oh, TV” and “ah, yes the web” – and suddenly it’s midnight. “Good night!”
Sweet fantasy keeps staying present though and perhaps he is courageous, sending little signals just passing by. But in spite of the big requirement for closeness, caressing, and conflation the familiarly comfortable banality won’t be chased off easily. Perhaps the not vanishing fantasy will flare up again later for a second time. One last attempt before sleep will overcome him? He thinks by himself: “Let’s get cuddly when it’s gloomy”? But often you will stop in your dry fantasy. He will turn on one side, ready to give himself over to sleep. Well, good night then.
Some of my guests sometimes adumbrate this act of a drama in a resigning way. But even though man will never protest, complain or even rise up. Everybody is talking about communication. Man is more or less ready to start a cooperative dialogue – is involved in it – or had even given up. She is often in more serious trouble nearby than to let herself ravish back and forth by the roaring waves of her husband’s desires.
My new approach Anna Safe 3.0 which I have been following for some time (Why? For which reason? look at my next-to-last blog entry) here in my studio opens some golden gates to the fantastic world of a holistic body indulgence which can be experienced, felt, enjoyed by man and woman – together.
For a couple of years I have been a supporter of this extraordinarily close, bodily slow amorous play with pre-, main- or after play – slow, slower, slowest. With the slogan “Darling, how long did we do yesterday and how the hell did our film end this time?” (There is an erotic trend called Slow Sex which goes exactly in this direction. Very, very thrilling 😊) .
Back into my studio. This is the linchpin for my guests and those who would like to be one.
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Anna – you are so moralising
Nope – I’m a women and I accepted for myself the potential to touch men. To whisper into their ear and to stoke up male energy softly but dominantly up to a cozy fire.
Safe, of course. That’s my new guideline. Being safe as a man as well as a woman, from hair tips to toeholds.
Don’t know if that’s the right thing for me.
Do you know what differs humans from animals?
The animals has got four legs, or five (hoot out)
Exactly. And humans have got their nude skin and by their senses they are able to experience themselves and their counterpart sensitively with even the tiniest detail.
Yes, I know that so far.
Nice to hear that, and do you know what I’m going to offer you therefore?
I’ll take you to an Anna adventure tour.
Wow – that’s thrilling. Ok, ready, steady, go!
Tssss . . . Hold it, hold it . . . Of course as always there will be a sweet little snag in it.
I expected that. What shall I do?
Keep patient. In December – shortly after Christmas (Christmas gifts before Christmas is everybody’s way to do it), I’ll take you to my Anna fantasy body tour – you and me.
What? As late as that?
We want to avoid Rushing & Stress Inc. in the future. I’m thinking about a nice body tour and during those days you imagine which could be the paths man and woman can walk together celebrating a hot body feeling pour deux. Deal?
Fine. And now there is another surprise for you. During the last hot days this year I didn’t go out into nature but I kept staying in Berlin, filled my suitcase with beautiful things and my photographer took exciting pictures of me. Loads of “Anna in Berlin” photos are in front of me, and I have chosen 50 wonderful ones.
One click and you can watch them: Here you are.