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I won’t exaggerate though posting news every week. Some things need time to ripen and to find their place.

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Time & Space

So? Did you get well through summer? Can you feel the power of autumn coming closer? Time flies and lies and we wonder where it all goes. Talkking about wondering … I do write with passion to get closer to my readers, but I have no clue whether my thoughts spark any reactions. It feels like my words are flying out into the deepest of the universe… and keep flying. Maybe one of you martians has a heart and writes me how my writings influenced them? That would mean a lot to me. Right now though I just keep waiting.

Now let’t continue with our course on how to be really nice to the lady of your heart. What were our stations on this journey so far?

Part 1 – Sharpen your conciossness

Part 2 – Bring slowness into the everday

Part 3 – Keep it simple, use your presence

So we passed three important milestones already. Do you want to continue? Then you need to open up time and space, to get into full erotic contact.

Your appartment, the room with the lockable door, the sofa, the kitchentable, at the fireplace, in the car, in the woods… there are many places where you can get together. But it should be comfortable 😉

Keep your office hours in the office and the rest of the day is for your leisure and can be planned.

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How much time do I need? Well, at least so much that nobody needs to check the clock. Think about your movie night. Keep the TV off and make your own programme. Cook dinner together, set the table romantically, wear something nice and enjoy the time together in candle light. The days are getting shorter fortunately.

Find Space and Time and feel for the magic of the new and unknown and unexpected. Try it. And for some more help, check out my last mail and the one before.

You’ll read more from me in the golden days auf Autumn (a time I really love).

 See you then!

Simpler is better…

Hi there! Were you able to get some slowness into your live the past weeks? If you are going fast, you will be missing much… so stay on course!

Today we are going to talk about things that matter even more. You’re in the mood and would like to start the dance of love with your beloved? Well then you need to start the fire inside her first. Less with words. Don’t even think of “Dear – we did not have sex for sooooo long. Let me light some candles”. A new piece of lingerie could be a door opener? But when the burden of everyday work and other regularities simply won’t let her celebrate the opening of her feminity, you won’t get far with a little nothing of clothes.

Annas magic word: – Simplicity. Just try it with some simple things.

No big stage setting. He who knows uses simplicity and presence. Don’t lose yourself in hectic activities. And you do not need any equipment. You just need two things: Her and You.

Every person has their own favorite spots, where they just like to be touched. It may be the head and neck, or the arms, or the hands, or the back, or the belly, or the breasts, or the booty or any part of the legs and feet. You need to find these spots and then give them your full attention. It is irrelevant whether these sweet spots are covered or not – touch them, put your hand on them and let them feel the warmth of your hands. This works best if you are focused, concentrated and present. The neck often is uptight and a sensitive spot too. Find a place behind her after dinner, caress her neck softly and slowly, feel for her muscles and let your fingers circle around them. How long? As long as she likes it. You may start with a minute but give her a 15 minute massage if she does not make you stop. But if she relaxes, you do everything right. When she starts to reject it, it might be either just the wrong moment, or she does not know where you want to end with your touching journey. Then let her know, that this little touch-break can simply be enjoyed on its own but also would be a good step on the way to get intimate.

‘And what about myself?’ My guests often tell me, that they are the ones who give but their partners just don’t answer the touch.

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So, be present, find her sweet spots and give them your full attention. Just try it.

We’ll read each other at the end of summer. Keep it hot!

Oh, regarding hot – my studio in the back of an old building of course is quite a bit cooler than outside.

Try it, with ..

So? Did you follow my advice to the traveler and made a thorough inspection of yourself? Could you feel your body a little bit different or was it back to the same-old? Being able to sense yourself is an important step to melt the heart of your desired lady. Just believe it. However, today we will make a few further steps in the topic of “better touching”. But first a word of caution. My words are not set in stone. I just grab from a deep treasure chest of experience and I also give you some little glimpses into my fantasies. Things I like might not impress all women, some might be even bored by them. So you as a man need to raise your antennas, receive her signals and learn to decipher them.

Annas magic word? Slowness. Try it with slowness. Slowwww. Keep it slooooowwwww. Do thing at a snails pace. Turn on the “slow motion”, turn down your speed, in everything you, once you approach her.

Look – have a deeper, longer look at her than usual…

Smile – I a little bit longer then you normally do…

Hold – her hand a little longer than she is used to…

Embrace – her a little longer when you say goodbye, when you say hello and in between

Count – silently to yourself. 2… 3… 4… 5… 6…

Feel yourself and also her with a slow motion mind. Breath deeply and take her with you in your breaths. Exhale and spread a soft carpet that she can sink into in your arms.

Of course this can lead to confusion and uncertainty, but your slowness is a gift for you, her and you both. And sometimes you need time to enjoy the extra attention you are giving and receiving.

A mindful reader will have realized that so far we are only at the daily routine of a couple between the “Goodbye my love”-kiss in he morning and the “I’ll go brush my teeth for the night”. But the daily routine is a great door opener for the more sensual time for two. Be more observant, more curious, more focused. Look at her with an uninhibited view and search for those details that your routine might have covered up. Anywhere your focus lingers, energy will accumulate and the temperature rises.

For those who moan:

Well, Anna, I would, but there is nobody female in my life right now.

Well, everything has its moment and in the meantime you just try this newfound slowness with yourself, because whatever you are searching for you most often will find in yourself.

We will continue this when summer starts again. See you then!