So the new year already has us in its grip. Or are you gripping your year? Everybody runs at their own speed, but one thing is for sure, spring already has taken its wardrobe from the attic. The days are getting longer and I feel the lively spring spirits getting closer. One, two, three and they jumped into us, even you, to look in every nook and cranny, throw out the old, dust off the shelves and make room for all new things.

Oh, today you are a bit abstract, aren’t you?

Yes, I’d like to chart a course to my second fantasy-journey in the direction of the “Queen of Hearts”.

Oh, well. So where are we heading to this time?

Before we start we rest for a while at the starting block and check out the traveler from head to toe, as without a traveler there is no journey. Let’s look at the basics. If you want to get to a sensual destination, you need to feel yourself, who you are and what you are made of.

Look into a mirror – both real and in your mind. Have you got only a small one in the bathroom, in the car, or a large one, showing you from head to toe? These are the best ones. Look into it, look at yourself, at your face. Have you shaved yet? Or still wearing some designer stubble? Well groomed or rather casual? Run your fingers across your chin or better, take the sensitive insides of your upper arm. Does it scratch? Scratching is not good for matching. Your hair? Short, or to the shoulders or a lot less up to zero? Who takes care of you hair? A woman, a hairdresser “just the usual…” or you yourself, based on your style and preferences? What type of man are you? Individual? Vanilla or even grey and unimpressing? What about your gaze? Is it nervous or clear and steady? Can it be striking and cause weak knees? Can you talk with your eyes?

Smile, you are a charming guy!

Yes, that’s you and now look down on yourself. Are you the type that women like to touch curiously? What do you like about yourself?

Your upper arms? Are they powerful and tough? Can they carry a woman? Or are they a bit weak lately because there just was no opportunity? Do something about it. There is always time for some pushups! Look at your hands. Are they rough or soft, pampered or not worth a mention? Your hands are your seduction power number 2. And now farther down the body. Is there a belly or is there something that will be called a belly soon? Stay straight, shoulders back, tuck the tummy in. Yes, now that’s a better shape. Are you one of those people with a mobile in their hand, for games and reading news? Keep it in the pocket and see the world around you. That is way more interesting and stays in your head longer than all the online swiping and scrolling. And if you do it, you will pull others with you. Living offline is contagious. 😉 Where were we? Ah, belly. Turn around. Touch your rear with both hands. How does it feel? Firm, saggy or cramped? Relax. It’s better for the buttocks. What kind of bottom would you like? Is your behind an erogenous zone that invites the lady of your dreams to knead it? Yes? Rrrrrr… but if you think No, then do something about it. The derriere is such a place of joy, both for men and women. Just believe me. 😉 Keep looking… down the legs. Wearing saggy trousers? Why not well cut trousers that make the most of your legs? There are a lot of little details that make you interesting as a man in a woman’s eye. With shoes some men actually have passed by women in the style and color department. I’m impressed.

So – are you a pretty guy who enjoys making a mark on the female spectator? Yes? Congratulations, keep doing! No? Then ask yourself what is really important in life. We all are not getting younger and the earlier you are conscious of your body, the longer you can enjoy that. For sure? Well, be more offline, be more open for the little and the big encounters. Then you will know.

Annas advice: Feel more, think less…

Wishing you a beautiful, sensual spring!